PEGGING can be pleasurable & YES it exists

PEGGING can be pleasurable & YES it exists

Pegging can be PleasurablePegging can be pleasurable & yes it exists even if you don’t want to think about it.

I was supposed to appear on a popular talk show last week. I was excited. I notified everyone I know (they all know that I talk about sex), including my entire data base and then nothing happened. It was like getting ready for a matric dance and your date chickens out.

On Monday I got hold of the producer who advised me that the television station had pulled it for being too risqué. For the life of me I cannot think of what I could have said that would make the screening risqué. I kept my clothes on and I didn’t swear.

Could it be that I asked the interviewer if she would be able to identify her vagina if she lost it? Or was it the reply to a question she asked me?

If you are a regular reader of this column you will know that I am straight shooter. There is very little point in beating about the bush. Sex is sex. It is a normal biological function of the human condition. Yes there are those who will make filth out of everything and there are those who will use it for power or profiteer out of it, but mostly we use it for procreation and recreation.

So what was the question? The interviewer asked me what I get asked the most when I am in the Lola Montez store. Would you like to know the answer?

Well here goes.

My answer was that it changes from time to time and that there seems to be a collective consciousness that that influences the trends. It used to be bondage related but now it’s all about pegging.

She looked at me, I looked at her hoping she wasn’t going to take it further. I hoped she knew the golden rule about asking questions on television – Never ask a question you don’t know the answer to. She didn’t and asked ‘Pegging?’

I knew that we would have to go down that road. This interview was not my first rodeo so I knew how to answer in case it needed to be cut and so I answered.

Pegging is a more polite word for anal sex but not anal sex on women but rather anal sex on men.

Heterosexual couples are exploring and are purchasing strap on and prostrate stimulating toys in their droves. I am convinced that this is the reason the interview was pulled.

I did not go into details about the how, it was daytime television after all. I am not going to do that in this column either but we do need to deal with the topic in its broadest terms.

Prostate massage for men can be extremely pleasurable and if he enjoys it, it does not make him a homosexual. It just means that they derive sexual pleasure from it .

Many couples battle with the concept and I deal with many questions regarding his sexuality if this is something he wants to try or enjoys. Let me say it again, his enjoyment does not mean he is gay!

Besides being pleasurable, he could experience multiple orgasms from prostate stimulation and allegations have been made that prostate massage could help in preventing prostate cancer.

I did not mention this any of this in the interview because I just knew that it was too much for daytime television, but it’s a pity because anal sex is a big deal and we should know about how to deal with it.

Young girls are having anal sex because they believe that it preserves their virginity. As if the preservation of the hymen is the most important thing to preserve for their sexual health and reputation! But let’s hide it in the darkness because then it doesn’t exist. Let’s not talk about it because then it doesn’t exist and if it doesn’t exist then we don’t have to worry about it or educate.

Tearing is common and because the anal wall is so fragile the spread of sexually transmitted disease is rife, but let’s not talk about it for fear of upsetting someone and so we perpetuate the ignorance.

Thanks to porn movies anal sex has become increasingly popular. Anal sex exists. Pegging is the question I am asked about most often. It can be pleasurable but you need to know what you’re doing. Just remember that everything you do has got to be safe, sane and consensual. You can read more about the how on my blog which can be found online at www.blog.lolamontez.co.za.

As I have said – Pegging can be Pleasurable – here are a couple of toys to help you with your play

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and don’t forget to watch my YouTube video on anal sex toys called Bits and Butts.

There are a couple of other videos on anal sex which will also illuminate.

Till next week. For further information or comments you can email me sharon@lolamontez.co.za

 

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