
11 Embarrassing things about sex.
11 Embarrassing Things About Sex That Are Completely Normal, And Totally OK To Talk About! SEx can be embarrassing! I don’t know about you but there have been times while having sex that have caused a great deal of anxiety. When I was younger I would be so humiliated that ch ...

Keeping your Kegels Tight
Keeping your Kegels Tight Keeping your Kegels tight is quite a challenge! When last did you skip, jump or just laugh out loud? How did that go for you? Is sneezing in public becoming a danger zone? Chances are that you have lost control of your bladder and your PC or Kegel m ...

Spice Up your Sex Life
Spice up your sex life. Spice up your sex life – 10 tips – I’ve been watching the follow up to Sex and the City – ‘And just like that…’ I was reluctant at first because how can one recreate a show that was so good it identified the troubles of being a woman in th ...
Anal Sex – yours not hers!
Anal Sex – Yours not Hers. Ever considered anal sex? Yours not hers! Naught – I hear you gasp. I’m not gay – I hear you defend. Before you stop reading, I once sold over R300 000.00’s, worth of prostate stimulators in only 3 days. Granted it was at Erotica in London, ...
Porn and Plumbers, is watching porn okay?
Porn and Plumbers is watching porn okay? Is Watching Porn Okay? My house has become the place where discarded adult toys and porn movies come to retire or die. I now have boxes of movies and I’m getting ready to leave them on the pavement to be collected by those who want th ...
Kinky sex for first timers
Kinky Sex for First Timers! Kinky Sex and Bondage Tips for S&M First Timers Kinky sex for first timers can be really tricky. I recently discovered that credit card payments have been disabled on my website because I sold bondage items on it. Bondage items were classified ...
Kinky Sex for First Timers
Kinky Sex for First Timers Everything you wanted to know (but were afraid to ask) about S&M. Even if you’re not sure what S&M actually entails, the letters alone probably conjure up images from movies you’ve seen or books you’ve read: Whips and chains, leather ...
Effects of long term abuse
Effects of long term abuse I have met so many women who have been sexually abused or raped. I’ve also met a couple of men who have suffered the same trauma but by far the demographic is women and girls. It is so endemic in our society that if we hear about another organisati ...