Tips on love, lust, dating and relationships.
How long should sex take?
How long should sex take? I’m often asked ‘How long should sex take?’ Oy! How long is a piece of string? The answer very much depends on what you want to tie! Similarly it depends on the parties having sex. Paulo Caelo thinks that the average sexual encount ...
How do I know about Orgasm?
How do I know if I’ve had an Orgasm? During consultations over the past year and as a result of the emails I received from you as a result of this column I have come up with a list of commonly asked questions and concerns. For the next couple of weeks I am going to add ...
Netflix and Chill is not Consent
Consent is more than Netflix and Chill! What constitutes consent? I’m hoping it’s more than Netflix and Chill! A recent survey found that everybody agreed that consent was essential when it came to sex. And I mean everybody interviewed in the survey. I was impres ...
Butterfly Strap On Vibrators
Butterfly Strap On Vibrators Butterfly strap on vibrators and why you shouldn’t wear them while shopping! Have you heard the story of the woman who passed out in a shopping center because she was wearing her butterfly strap on vibrator? The story goes that the woman in ...
Good in Bed Date 2
Good in Bed – Romantic Date 2 We often think that a date has to be a grand gesture when sometimes it’s the very small things that matter. I love my bed. It’s safe and warm especially after the sheets have just been changed. But bed is the sexiest when ...
How Couples play together
Couples who play together – Stay together. I’ve often wondered what it is that keeps couples together and I’m not talking about those couples who stay together ‘for the children’ or because they cannot afford to get divorced. I’m talking ...
10 Things about sex we shouldn’t worry about!
10 Things about sex weshouldn’tworry about.With thanks to www.webmd.comWe stress over our jobs, our relationships, our finances and our friendships and unfortunately, even our bedrooms can become a breeding ground for anxiety.Sex may be touted as one of the most effect ...
Romantic Date – Music Lovers
Music LoversTo make an anniversary or special celebration even more memorable, enlist musician friends or hire a local musician to play for just the two of you over a home cooked meal.Compile a list a favourite tunes that are meaningful to you and get the musician to play th ...
Romantic Date – Blind Date
Blind DateBlindfold your partner and take them to a romantic restaurant or surprise cultural event. Keep the surprises going all evening.Arrange for the chef to come and say hello and deliver a special dessert. Get a special bottle of wine. Arrange for a backstage tour at th ...
Romantic Date – Loving Lunches
Loving LunchesIf you can’t have lunch with your partner in person, be there in spirit.Once a week or whenever they need a pick me up pack a special bag of lunch with their favourite food, a love note and an extra treat (sexy photo etc).
