Blow Jobs – Some ideas.

Blow Jobs – Some ideas.


Performing oral sex on a guy means you’re in control; it also means it must be enjoyable for you. If you’re being forced to go down on him, you won’t enjoy it and you won’t be able to give him the orgasm he dreams about.

A blow job is a gift you give your man on your own terms.
Men in general get aroused more when they see their partners sucking and nibbling their cock with gusto. Your guy is no exception. He wants to see your whole face and your body while you’re performing oral sex on him. Look at him while you’re giving him head and let him see how sexy you feel while you’re taking him whole inside your mouth.

There is more to giving a blow job than bobbing your head and making his penis go in and out of your mouth. Giving manual or oral stimulation means recreating the environment where he usually climaxes… the vagina. And this is why lubricant is the best sex toy you will ever own. Spit will work – but hell it’s just not sexy!

Your vaginal muscles do not remain static during sex; they contract, they clench and they grip his penis tighter. Your mouth and your hands should simulate your vagina closely for him to really be able to climax through oral and manual stimulation.

The ability to perform manual stimulation on him while giving him head is the best reason to wrap your hand around the base of his penis when performing oral sex on him.

Think about it; your hands should not be idle during blow job. You can use your hands to increase his pleasure. In fact, the best type of oral sex on men involves manual stimulation. And don’t forget his balls. They are always left out!

Flirting creates sexual tension, it makes you feel sexy and increases his arousal before you even start performing oral sex.

A man also loves being teased visually while receiving oral sex, so you have to make sure he can see your facial expression while you’re giving him head. A tip – look at him as you would a pair of Jimmy Choo shoes, with lust, pure lust.

You also make sure your breasts have a role in teasing him (you rub his penis on your breasts when you can).

Don’t forget to use your breath. A soft blow or an inhale on wet skin is a very different sensation. It MAY feel like tickling but pausing to blow once in a while on his already sensitized penis will make your partner feel more aroused. The sensation varies from guy to guy but the effect is the same: you’re varying the sensations and he’s feeling the difference. It does not only tickle, it also feels really good!

If you use a menthol sweet to enhance sensation, letting the sweety work its magic first before taking him in will work for you because you will already be salivating a lot before you take his penis inside your mouth, and you can avoid the sensation of having an un-melted candy moving around your mouth together with your partner’s penis.

Most men will tell you that it is the blow job and hand job combination that really does the business! Giving him a hand job requires patience and skill, and any woman can make her man climax using her hands if she gets both aspects right. Patience is something that you must develop yourself, but we can help in the skills department.

Taking full control .You must believe in your ability to make him climax.Remember that when you give him a blow job or a hand job, you’re in full control of everything that happens.
A big part of what turns him on is that he surrenders control to you, so you should be up to the challenge. This means taking care not to hurt his penis or testicles, and making sure he gets the satisfaction he craves.

Feeling sexy during oral sex and manual sex should come naturally, but if you don’t feel sexy yet, you can increase your arousal by talking dirty to your man.

More than increasing your arousal (and his), talking dirty will improve communication, which is essential in any aspect of the love making process. Ask him questions, tell him what you’re going to do to him, and most of all, express your excitement through your words and your actions. You can do all this without saying anything crude!

You know what it takes to give him a good time! You understand that making a man orgasm through manual or oral stimulation is a skill, and like all skills, it can be improved with consistent practice and the right education.

It’s up to you to do the practice, but we can help you in the further education department. 

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