Advice

Aug 02

Question:

I had my first baby 4 months ago and find I am just not interested in making love with my husband? Help please!
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Aug 01

Never before has one little spot caused so much angst and dilemma for us girls. I would have loved to have been there when a German gynaecologist, Dr Ernest Gräfenberg discovered this spot in the 1950s. It was a he and this spot in the female body has been named after him – hence the G – Spot. More

Jul 30

If you and your partner are looking for ways to spice up your love life without damaging the environment, consider shopping for green sex toys, says the Canadian inventor of the We-Vibe – a lead-free, phthalate-free, rechargeable sex toy made of medical-grade silicone. More

Jul 28

If you're using a vibrator for the first time, a good way to start is to become familiar with your sex organs. Look in a mirror and explore them with your fingers. You'll want to begin by getting yourself "in the mood." Take the time to explore different kinds of touch, finding out what's pleasurable and arous-ing. Discover your clit. The only part of the human body – both male and female – that has no other purpose but pleasure. Many do not like direct contact onto the clit head. Those nerve endings run all along the vagina entrance – so find the spot that works best for you. More

Jul 26

Ever considered anal sex? Yours not hers! Naught - I hear you gasp. I’m not gay – I hear you defend.

Before you stop reading I recently sold over R300 000.00’s, worth of prostate stimulators in only 3 days. Granted it was at Erotica in London, but it was mainly to straight men and many of those purchased with their partners. More

Jul 26

Put aside a couple of hours where you will not be disturbed and can totally relax. Grab a couple of towels, some good quality lube and perhaps an erotic DVD. Have a long hot bath. Give yourself a good clean. Whilst the anus is usually free of faeces – it is a passage not a retainer you may want to use a douche to make sure. As the anus does not have a natural lubricant lubrication is very important. Silicone lubricant is often the best because it lasts longer and does not have to be reapplied. More

Jul 24

– the hazards of partying like a pole dancer by Sophia Munnik More