Advice

Bringing Sexy Back!

Some women out there are sexy! They sizzle and glow and make the rest of us feel – unsexy. I have often asked why I should bother to look and feel sexy.

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Benwa Balls

Benwa has become the catch all name for adult toys that generally are two weighted balls that are inserted into the vagina like a tampon. Whilst their use as a turn on is undisputed, they have a far more important function. Strengthening your PC Muscles!

Filed Under: G-Spot, Toy Tips, Toy Reviews

Inside his dirty little mind!

Every year Lola Montez invites 5 men ranging from early 20s to mid 50s to answer questions about sex, relationships and love. The one rule is that they have to answer honestly or not at all.

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Tantric Sexuality Lessons

It is not easy to describe tantric sexuality if the emphasis is placed on the physical experience alone. In all honesty, such information should be given under the banner or eroticism, sexuality or sensuality. When mind-blowing experiences are promised, or sensational expanded orgasms guaranteed, one should approach such teachings with caution.

Filed Under: Sex Questions, Alternative Sex

Too much vibrations?

Bought a toy that’s turned out to be way too intense?

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Anal Play

The anus and rectum are packed with sensitive nerve endings. Many people –male and female– find this to be their most sensitive erogenous zone. For men it is even more so because of the prostate gland. By stimulating this gland a man is able to have multiple orgasms, orgasm without ejaculation and experience an orgasm unlike a penis induced orgasm. See the article on prostate massage and Anal Sex 101.

Filed Under: Anal, Toy Tips

Lelo Gigi

As the name suggests, the Gigi is ideal for hitting the G-Spot due to its nifty curve and subtly ridged head. Its rechargeable for wireless G-Spot probing, is slim enough for easy penetration, and offers a range of vibrate functions from mild to medium intensity. If you want to ejaculate, this is the toy to experiment with. Oh, and it’s available in purple or, you’ve guessed it, pink.

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Sin 5 Vuali

One of the Sin 5 range (named after the 5th sin, lust) the ribbed Vulai
sqweels in just the right places to hit your G-Spot, and vibrations are
controlled using plus and minus buttons on the base. Its waterproof,
discreet quiet and utterly pretty, which might help you over look the
fact that its so pricey. A sachet of lube and batteries are provided, if
that helps with the financial blow.

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Sex is good for you

I have always said that sex is a physical act – like going to the gym!
It has all the same features. For many of us it is hell to get there but
once we have been we feel really good.

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Anal Sex

Ever considered anal sex? Yours not hers! Naught - I hear you gasp. I’m not gay – I hear you defend.

Before you stop reading I recently sold over R300 000.00’s, worth of prostate stimulators in only 3 days. Granted it was at Erotica in London, but it was mainly to straight men and many of those purchased with their partners.

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Guide to a prostrate massage

Put aside a couple of hours where you will not be disturbed and can totally relax. Grab a couple of towels, some good quality lube and perhaps an erotic DVD. Have a long hot bath. Give yourself a good clean. Whilst the anus is usually free of faeces – it is a passage not a retainer you may want to use a douche to make sure. As the anus does not have a natural lubricant lubrication is very important. Silicone lubricant is often the best because it lasts longer and does not have to be reapplied.

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How to use a Vibrator

If you're using a vibrator for the first time, a good way to start is to become familiar with your sex organs. Look in a mirror and explore them with your fingers. You'll want to begin by getting yourself "in the mood." Take the time to explore different kinds of touch, finding out what's pleasurable and arous-ing. Discover your clit. The only part of the human body – both male and female – that has no other purpose but pleasure. Many do not like direct contact onto the clit head. Those nerve endings run all along the vagina entrance – so find the spot that works best for you.

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